THE POWER OF PRESENCE IN RELATIONSHIPS
Winter is a time of nurturing, and one of the best ways
to keep warm in winter is to snuggle with someone
you love. However, for many, relationships provide not
solace, but struggle and pain.
Relationships are not there necessarily to make us
happy; they are there to help us grow…
Through relationships we grow more than through any
other means. Creating and nurturing meaningful loved
based relationships are an important ingredient in our
life’s happiness – the effort is well worth the rich rewards.
To love is to recognize yourself, your true deep
Beingness, in another, for the ‘other’ is but merely a
mirror. Look deep and recognise your Divine essence
in all you meet and all you see. That is love.
While fear and anxiety are the perception of
disconnection, love is a feeling of connection to life
and all the people around us.
Remember: ALLOWING AND ACCEPTING – IS LOVE
We yearn to be accepted for just who we are,
unconditionally, so let’s give some of that to the world.
Let’s be less judgemental, less conditional. Let us invite
unconditional love into our awareness, into our lives
My 6 Golden Keys to living fulfilled relationships are:
1. Eliminate criticism and blame – of others and yourself
2. Own your own feelings
3. Always make the present moment more important
than past and future
4. Make listening twice as important than responding
5. Allow – the other to be who they are
6. Forgive each moment as it occurs – let it go!
All our relationships reflect our selves.
They are mirrors of our own soul.
John Homewood : Integral Life Coach and